1. Schedule about what stresses you.
If it's about finance or something that typically stresses
you out, schedule it in. Stop trying to balance your already-stressed-out
budget at lunch or dinner. Wait until Saturday morning, when you're well-rested
and commitment-free. Or pick one day per month that you focus on financial issues.
Then stop thinking about it every day. Start doing the things that make money
more often, rather than stressing about it every minute of a day. If you have a
thought come in about it during the week, just write it down and come back to
it later when you time. Learning to discipline my thoughts has spared me from a
lot of useless, non-productive, self-loathing fear and drama, especially when
it was about financial issues.
2. Schedule in thinking about
things that are bothering you (at unproductive times).
Things would pop into our head
at the most random (and unproductive!) times. If you got stressed out about
something on your way to work, you should tell yourself that you couldn't think
about until after 6pm. If something was making you worried, you can make a
decision to NOT think about it until the very next day, when you knew you would
have more objectivity. Don't ever become a slave to your thoughts, make them
obey you. Don’t get lost in them. It’s fatal.
Productivity does have a lot
to do with time management and prioritizing things to execute. But it is also very
important to realize when we are at our best peak flow times during the day and
the week. Schedule in or write down when you shall think about certain things
that bothers you, both related to personal life and professional, and you will
find things don't overwhelm you as much as they used to, and you will actually
even enjoy processing some things that you used to avoid, hate or deny
altogether.
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