Recovering From a Love Failure.

Love is the four letter magic word, and our world is so colorful and full of butterflies as long as it lasts. But sadly, not all love stories end in marriage, and those that do not all last forever. The breakup of relationships has become too common in this modern society. People may fall in love and get out of love just as easily. When we truly love someone and that love is not reciprocated, we may feel as if it's the end of the world. We lose interest in our work; we alienate ourselves from friends and family and sink into maximum depression. In summary, we become zombie.

As painful as heartbreak can be, never lose hope! With a little effort and some time, we can overcome our sadness and find love again.

Firstly, allow yourself to grieve. You may feel angry and frustrated on you for the overwhelming sadness you are feeling at that moment, but it’s important to be gentle with yourself and accept your emotions. You loved a person from the bottom of your heart and you thought that your love would last forever. Then one day, the person you loved the most left you, possibly for another man or woman. You feel betrayed by someone you trusted. You feel stabbed. The grief you feel for your lost love, and for the future you imagined is very real. As with any grief, the one and only way to survive is to allow yourself to experience it fully in order to get to the other side.

Secondly, redirect your energy. Losing a relationship will leave a gap in your life. All of the time and energy you previously spent on the relationship you valued most now has no outlet. This can leave you feeling restless and empty. If you focus that energy on something else, either by focusing into your work, or spending time to friends or family, you can start to fill that emptiness. This can be an opportunity to focus your emotional energy on something you're passionate about, or to create a new passion. Keep yourself busy by concentrating on something important. Soon, you shall feel that your priorities have changed, and that the loss you felt once has vanished.

Thirdly, surround yourself with your loved ones. Don’t be alone, because loneliness can trigger your feelings. Be with your friends, family or someone who cares for you. You friends or family can cheer you up and provide their shoulder when you need it. When you spend time with friends, you don't have to worry about loneliness, and they won't judge you for your feelings.

Finally, don't give up on love. Don’t let your experience make you lose faith in love as a whole. Don’t come to a conclusion that there is no true love and become cynical, as if you do so you will not be able to discern true love when it finds its way to you. You must have faith that the right person is out there for you, the one who will care for you and treat you with the same kindness you treat them and love you unconditionally.